PMS but no period

Hi,

I am 45 years old. Last year there were a few times that I skipped a period having my period 60 some days apart. I can't remember when I last had it at this point so I am going by the last time I wrote it down and that is in November. I have been having bloating and pain and backaches when I SHOULD be getting my period but it doesn't come. I have not experienced the pre-period frequent bowel movements that I usually do. So I am in pain from all the bad symptoms without the benefit of the monthly cleaning out if you know what I mean. I called my doctor and was put on medroxyprogesterone for 10 days. I am now 14 days out after starting the meds, so 4 days after stopping and no period yet. What happens next? Does anyone know? If the medroxyprogresterone doesn't work, what do they do now? I feel there is someting wrong because I am having period symptoms and no period. I swear I feel I have several months of bloating going on and am so afraid I will wind up in the hospital if/when bleeding ever begins.

My first period at 12 was crazy, I was in the hospital for 5 days and lost 10 pounds. Doctors said that there was a build up of estrogen that prevented my period from starting on time and then I lost a few months all at once. I had to have multiple blood transfusions while in the hospital.

I am so afraid something like that will happen to me again.

I can't even call my doctor YET because they said bleeding anywhere from 2-7 days after stopping the medicine. I just think is ridiculous, seriouly why didn't they just give me an abortion pill and put me out of my misery.

Anything thoughts are welcome, please I just need to talk to someone about this, I feel so alone in this. My mom died when I was 21 so she is not here for me to talk to about this.

thank you

Jodee